Where art thou, Mr. Right?

Ladies, are you tired of waiting for Mr. Right?

I’m pretty sure that you’ve heard more than enough advice from the experts. They always tell you to wait and stop trying so hard searching for the right guy. I remember an SMS before that says: 

Love is like a butterfly. If you go around chasing the butterfly, you will never catch it. But if you sit back and relax, the butterfly will come land right on your nose when you least expect it.

When did boys get associated with butterflies, anyway?

Say, you’ve been waiting for about 20 years to finally "feel that feeling."  You know the typical i’ll-know-it-if-he’s-the-one?  But seriously, can you go on waiting?

Can you still wait like this for another 20?? Kidding! Hey, but surely there were successful risk takers before you. Those who survived the challenge of waiting in vain. But let’s put it this way:

There are just some people who need not go out looking for Mr. Right because he’s already around. Other than that, there is what we call— EFFORT on your part.

Admit it or not, those who might have found their princes exposed themselves out there. They got out of their comfort zones. So don’t go nuts asking the heavens why Mr. Right has not yet arrived. If you hide yourself in a tower, would you expect someone to suspend his butt in mid-air just to climb that secluded place of yours? Yes, that's possible! But not all the time. Unless, destiny intervenes...

But you are not Rapunzel.

My two cents: Don’t be desperate looking for him. Keep on getting better. Be someone you would like to meet. And just be ready for THE DAY when you will bump into Mr. Right. You don't know what date it’ll happen so don’t tire yourself. Stay beautiful!

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